Like this:

... Yes, I own that wand now. It came in 2 days, which was nice. It's 15" long, and very light weight. I love it... it's totally "mine".
Weird thing is, because of my wrists, it's hard to "swish and flick" very easily in both directions.
So holding it the way Voldemort does in the movies is actually *much* more comfortable... Looks ghey, but is actually rather interesting... Kinda like learning how to use chopsticks properly.

Praise me. My 90 bucks was well spent.