So, um.... Cybering.

Shard · Post by **Shard** » Wed Aug 13, 2008 10:07 pm

Yeah, that.

Now, I've been mildly to terribly attracted to/enfatuated with a guy who plays City of Heroes for quite some time. We chat a lot, throw silly boredom-shattering nonsequitors at each other, and sometimes even team up (and PLAY the game lol).

I've been trying to flirt, really I have, I don't know how to do it without crossing a line or embarrassing one or both of us... Because until tonight I had no idea whether it would fly or not...

>_> It'd fly. o.o

While it wasn't like, rough and tumble smexy dirty smut flying ... it was suggestive and hawt. I know (at least, I believe from what he's said over the years) that he works out *a lot* so mmm, must be pretty buff, he boxes (so he's probably got some interesting injuries...), he's a psychologist in New York and has terrible insomnia problems. I have no idea what he actually LOOKS like, but ... hehe.

>_> I don't know where I'm even going with this, just to say... yay me. Because guy I'm hawt for is responsive *and* managed to use the word "waggle" in descriptions.

*heheheehehehe*

I haven't had sex in way, way too long, and my freaking ex is engaged to some chinese girl. So... yah, young dude in New York? Sounds pretty damn tasty to me.

Post by **Dray** » Wed Aug 13, 2008 10:47 pm

XDDD The title of this post left me thinking that the content was going to be -way- different.

I hope things work out! :D *high fives*

Rachael · Post by **Rachael** » Wed Aug 13, 2008 10:55 pm

PFFT I was hoping to launch into some tales of dramatic ways to leave sudden!cybersex situations, of which I have a few more than I ever expected. XD

Kudos for the both of you! I hope things do continue to be mutually pleasing. ;D

Shard · Post by **Shard** » Wed Aug 13, 2008 11:00 pm

ogod I hope so. I mean... this has been going on a while, on my end anyway. I have had very, VERY naughty dreams about the guy and yet lol still have no idea what he looks like... o.o *dies*

Rachael · Post by **Rachael** » Wed Aug 13, 2008 11:06 pm

HA! Hey, that's perfectly natural. I have like, next to no sex drive, but even I've had fairly ~interesting~ dreams about people I've never met face to face. I did meet them later, however, but we were in a different sort of relationship (firm friends) by then. =)

Shard · Post by **Shard** » Wed Aug 13, 2008 11:32 pm

heheh.

Firm.

o.o god lol.

Rachael · Post by **Rachael** » Wed Aug 13, 2008 11:38 pm

*SNIGGER*

Not as lol as having a sudden, vivid, three-second sexy image of you and someone you haven't met while watching Alien vs. Predator.

WTF, self?

Yakima · Post by **Yakima** » Thu Aug 14, 2008 7:50 pm

heh

well, shard, can't be as bad as having a major crush on a guy you haven't seen in oh...like six months since he was fired from work. And I didn't realizie how bad I had a crush on him until he was gone.

I think that might have something to do with my mood latley. I miss him and feel stupid for not saying anything but, I think I had good enough reason (he was fired for sexual harrasment...though he never did anything that I knew of, just heard stories. *shrug*) *crosses fingers for you*

And just some triva, Athar's knight, Tylar Hardel, was named and inspired by this guy, and Kynta is anouther 'me' so I sorta got him, right. *plots for next AEC clutch

*

Shard · Post by **Shard** » Thu Aug 14, 2008 8:59 pm

hehe - lol I have to wonder, if you got ahold of him and told him this, would he be even more pissed that he'd been released for that reason, or find it just funny and ironic?

not for the squeamish

Oh man I need to freaking hump this guy. .... it was ... so... gratifying to be doing something I haven't written (or been on the phone about) in this long... mmm. I love menparts. I really do. I think he knows that tonight

Yakima · Post by **Yakima** » Thu Aug 14, 2008 9:12 pm

Shard wrote:hehe - lol I have to wonder, if you got ahold of him and told him this, would he be even more pissed that he'd been released for that reason, or find it just funny and ironic?

No, he knows. I found out later that he was/had been given a few more chances to change his tendancy to such comments in a few different stores and that was his last chance. He was a nice guy, I went to school with him since 6th grade even though I never really paid attention to him, and I'm pretty sure that I worked with him in another store before I went to collage. *shrug* But, yeah, I'm sure he knows.

I just want to 'let it go' which is hard when he appears in my dreams and they're not exsactly PG rated.

*hits head on wall*

Not sure if it's good for me to raid my sister's 'library' of romance novels half the time...urg...but I get bored and reading is good.

i think...

COH...I miss playing that even if it reminds me of my second ex...heh...

Shard · Post by **Shard** » Thu Aug 14, 2008 10:00 pm

lol the irony of the other night was that my ex was on the game at the time. One wrong mistell would have been VERY fun

Of course, what I just pulled off a couple hours ago, I was standing *under Atlas* at a costume contest (which I won 5 mil inf in by the way o.0) so even ONE of the things passing between us would have been SO oh my god embarrassing.... I don't think I would have ever heard the end of it...

And yeah the dream thing is kinda hard. lol - least you know what that guy looks like....

Yakima · Post by **Yakima** » Fri Aug 15, 2008 4:19 pm

yeah...true.

wishes you luck

and a congrats on the costume contest. dur...I want to be able to play again but my budget is so tight that I doubt I can swing it.

There is quite a bit of satisfaction in beating up CG characters when you're pissed at the world.

JKatkina · Post by **JKatkina** » Mon Aug 25, 2008 6:57 pm

Everyone says masturbation is the safest sex?

Nope, nope. Cybering. :D

Have fun, Shard! Everyone needs some happy fun sexy times now and then!

Shard · Post by **Shard** » Mon Aug 25, 2008 7:55 pm

Mmmhmm.

>_> bought myself this.... gotta say it's pretty nice lol. NSFW!!!

Post by **Dray** » Mon Aug 25, 2008 7:59 pm

WHAT!?

Geezers have sex-drives?!

....*cackles and runs for fear of being caned most cruelly*

Shard · Post by **Shard** » Mon Aug 25, 2008 8:34 pm

Psssh. About a full week, every month, and then very, very little otherwise. But the fact that a man (one who I have every belief is a smexy hunk of muscle and brains) expressed any interest in me after the CRAP that my ex has put me through (... inadvertently? unwittingly?) feels very, very good...

Post by **Dray** » Mon Aug 25, 2008 8:56 pm

No doubt! :D *locks him in a room with you* HAVE AT! Mua ha ha ha!

Shard · Post by **Shard** » Mon Aug 25, 2008 10:01 pm

I think it was my comment about shackles on the wall when we were just goofing off, that kinda triggered it all in the first place

heheh.

JKatkina · Post by **JKatkina** » Mon Sep 01, 2008 9:24 pm

*points Shard in the direction of Blowfish and Babeland* It's a whole new world, I swear. :D Why have one toy when you can have many?

I also think Blowfish is just a damn good company. XD I mean, seriously, they carry a book called 'Exhibitionism for the Shy'. I love 'em! :D

Shard · Post by **Shard** » Mon Sep 01, 2008 11:05 pm

http://www.blowfish.com/catalog/toys/im ... r-2123.jpg

.... The HELL is that supposed to do lol!!

Post by **Dray** » Tue Sep 02, 2008 9:30 am

It's a teleportation device, duh.